1. Mediation is voluntary, it is not mandatory. 

Parties are free to leave mediation at any time, if one or both parties feel it is no longer the ideal resolution process. The particular issues at hands and relationship between the parties will shape and guide the mediation without the strict barriers of courtroom procedure. Moreover, there are no penalties for unsuccessful mediation.

2. Mediation keeps the power in the hands of the parties. 

A sense of control and power are crucial to one’s well being during a tumultuous time such as divorce and separation. Participating in mediation ensures that your voice is heard and valued. The experience of asserting power and expressing one’s concerns may be cathartic and psychologically beneficial. Additionally, each individual party is the best authority upon his or her best interest. Thus mediation allows the parties to work out their own solution.